Game Time

Today I was playing with one of my favorite 4 year olds, Max. He loves games and usually beats me. As we started, I asked who should go first. Pointing to the directions, he said he always goes first because he is the child. When I said, “Well, what am I?” he said “a human!” I guess humans go second.

 We were playing a new game that I had brought for the first time. Max was the third four-year-old boy who refused to play at first, and after a round of Coo Coo The Rocking Clown, was pleading with me to bring it again next time me met. Preschoolers love to play games—and win—but get frustrated with games that are only up to chance. I find that three to six-year-olds like a challenge with a game that requires some strategy and thinking. Check out my “Top Ten Games for 3-6 year-olds”.  Children take turns adding wooden balls for Coo Coo to juggle, hoping he won’t roll over and dump the pieces. Kids learn balance and strategy by placing the small, medium and large balls in precarious places to set up the “humans”

they are playing with. What makes Coo Coo fun is that he can roll way over and not topple!

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Are You Listening?

After spending a fun, chaotic week in Wisconsin with our extended family of 16, I am reminded of the energy it takes to “listen” and how important it is for our kids. As parents we are so intentional about “doing it right” and stimulating our children with the right toys, books, activities, and classes that we sometimes forget the importance of listening.

Recently I heard a dad telling about his five year-old daughter who loves to play house. He was recruited to play “the dad”, as usual. As she was chatting away, he would occasionally contribute as the pretend dad but he was trying to read the newspaper at the same time. Apparently he wasn’t responding enough and she finally came over and put her hand right down the center of his paper, looked him in the eye and said, “Daddy, you’re not listening to me.” To which he responded, “Yes, I am.” “No”, she said. “You’re not listening with your face!”

Don’t we all want others to listen to us with their face? Babies yell out to us and aren’t satisfied, until they see our face. That’s when they light up with a smile. A three year old asks us a question and wants our full attention, for his follow-up!

Researchers looked at babies when they were five months old and again when they were 13 months. Babies whose parents paused and then repeated their child’s sounds, were found to be stronger in vocabulary, attention span and pretend play than those children whose parents didn’t pause (listen) and quickly responded.

Often when our kids’ vocabulary is just starting to explode between one and a half and two years of age, if we wait another second or two before giving them what they are gesturing for, or answering them, they will give us more sounds, words and language. I have had parents tell me that encouraging them to pause is one of the most valuable things I have taught them.

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Welcome to Play on Words

Welcome to my blog. It is my mission to provide moms, dads and caregivers with great ideas on how to talk, read and play with your child to stimulate language development and have fun in the process! My hope is that this will be an interactive place where you can share what works and what doesn’t. What books does your child really attend to and respond to? What toys keep her interest and stimulate talking?

Many parents that I work with have become experts in spotting toys and books that have the features to encourage language.  They know how to pick a good language toy.  When I go to their homes, they show me their child’s favorites and I share them with others. Here is an opportunity for us to get ideas that have been tested by the best critics—your children!

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